Why is the emotional intelligence ability of self-control important in the workplace? Make sure you have a handle on this emotional intelligence ability. Want to end conflict and improve your relationships at home or at work by the end of the week?Think about a personal or work scenario in your past when everything went pear shaped.Perhaps you missed a return flight home or an unforeseen circumstance at work led to a massive layoff. As a result everything went pear shaped.How did you respond during the crisis? Were you rock solid, calm, clear-headed, optimistic, and a beacon of light for your team?Or did you have a bad reaction, throw a temper tantrum, point … [Read more...]

Emotional Intelligence is an emerging idea and as such there is no absolute definition for it According to Dr John Mayer, personality psychologist attached to the University of New Hampshire (United States) “Emotional Intelligence is a group of mental abilities which help you to recognize and understand your own feelings, as well as others; ultimately, EI leads to the ability to regulate your feelings.” There are two sides to EI – the intellect understanding emotion and using the intellect to bring about creative thoughts and ideas. Individuals high in EI pay attention to, use, understand, and manage emotions, and these skills serve adaptive functions that … [Read more...]

The gift and power of emotional agility over emotional rigidity ------ A GREAT MARRIAGE STARTS WITH YOU ------ … [Read more...]

How well are you managing personal emotions affecting your personal and work place relationship? Everything in life is about what you feel … If you’re experiencing positive emotions, that’s great … This is a non-problem status. Enjoy your life! If you’re feeling negative emotions … you are emotionally constipated and experiencing the physical effects of negative emotion (stress). Personal emotions represent bodily feelings experienced as arousal of the nervous system. Stress involves an emotional reaction, especially a reaction involving negative emotions. No one else can experience your feelings in the same … [Read more...]

How to deal with oppositional behaviour “NO WAY, NEVER, YOU CAN’T MAKE ME DO IT” Are you sick of hearing this in your household? Many parents tell me they are tired of arguing with their children. But if you ask the child, “How many times out of ten, when your mother (father, teacher) asks you to do something, will you do it the first time without arguing or fighting?”, many will tell you, “Not many times, maybe two or three out of ten.”And then if you ask them why, they tell you they have no idea why they do it, that it is not their goal to be oppositional.No wonder parents get confused not knowing how to deal with oppositional behaviour.Oppositional behavior … [Read more...]