I want to figure out who I really am Are you struggling with low mood or anxiety? Or perhaps you are sick of always feeling frustrated with everyone, and angry?Do you suffer low self-esteem and don’t know how to improve it? Perhaps you’ve tried by being grateful or reading those inspirational sayings, but still can’t get the demons out of your head?What makes you tick?Do you spend time wondering why you feel what you feel? Is it genetic or is it the way you were brought up? Is it possible to change and to be a better person and happier with the way life has turned out for you?Learn about yourself and find the real you. Once you find that wonderful person, you can … [Read more...]

Do you feel that your wife always criticizes everything you do? “My wife always criticizes me! I feel distant from my wife, and I feel as though I am no longer in love with her. She seems to always criticize me and no matter what I do it is never good enough, in her eyes.I believe I can no longer make her happy as she is frequently angry at me and always has an aggressive tone. Now when she tries to hug or touch me, I pull away and she yells at me about that too. I am starting to think my marriage is over.” Your Marriage May Be Over As a counsellor, I always feel sad when a husband tells me, "My wife always criticizes me and my marriage may be over." And I … [Read more...]

Why do men get angry so easily? I remember once when Mike and I were working outside together putting up a new fence. I was holding the posts while he lined them up and secured them in to position. Once finished, Mike checked our work and the corner post was out of alignment and he blew up. He shouted and ranted about the post being in the wrong position, and swore at the “stupid bloody thing” and “now we’re just going to have to get it out and do it all over again. It’s not good enough.”I went quiet, and couldn’t believe that Mike could attack me like that, when I had been nothing but patient and cooperative all day. He had got mad at me for no reason.I was still … [Read more...]

Learning to manage your emotionally unstable woman will dramatically improve your relationship and keep her loving you forever Do you get frustrated when your girlfriend gets all emotional and says you don’t understand her, or you don’t listen to her?You do your best, after all! You do listen and try to offer suggestions to help her, because you love her and you DON’T want her to be upset. But somehow you get it wrong, and she ends up crying and being more upset.Does she tell you she wants you to LISTEN to her, not solve her problem?Most guys are confused by this. They don’t quite get what it is their emotional girlfriend actually wants from them!When your … [Read more...]

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