Need to know how to manage a difficult person in your life? Ever wondered why other people are so difficult to get along with? Are you living or working with someone that you find is… Inconsiderate? Have you ever been hurt by the way someone has treated you, or something they’ve said? Perhaps that someone drives you to distraction – you constantly feel hurt and exhausted, taken for granted and perhaps even invisible?Do you stay awake at night with thoughts that go round in your head about that person and no matter how hard you try you can’t get rid of the thoughts or feelings? Exasperating? Have you ever been completely frustrated and screamed at your partner … [Read more...]
My Wife Always Criticizes Me
Do you feel that your wife always criticizes everything you do? “My wife always criticizes me! I feel distant from my wife, and I feel as though I am no longer in love with her. She seems to always criticize me and no matter what I do it is never good enough, in her eyes.I believe I can no longer make her happy as she is frequently angry at me and always has an aggressive tone. Now when she tries to hug or touch me, I pull away and she yells at me about that too. I am starting to think my marriage is over.” Your Marriage May Be Over As a counsellor, I always feel sad when a husband tells me, "My wife always criticizes me and my marriage may be over." And I … [Read more...]
Improve Communication Skills
How to improve communication skills with your partner I remember as a child, my mum would tell us kids, “You were born with 2 ears and one mouth so use them in that same proportion!”At the time, I thought that was a clever way of telling us kids to keep quiet!Now as an adult and relationship counsellor, I still think it’s a clever way of telling people to keep quiet!Because the best relationship communication technique of all is to use your two ears – to listen.And I mean REALLY listen. Listen to hear what the other person is trying to tell you. Listen to learn about what is important to them, or to what is bothering them. Listen instead of jumping to conclusions … [Read more...]
My Husband Gets Mad At Me For No Reason
Why do men get angry so easily? I remember once when Mike and I were working outside together putting up a new fence. I was holding the posts while he lined them up and secured them in to position. Once finished, Mike checked our work and the corner post was out of alignment and he blew up. He shouted and ranted about the post being in the wrong position, and swore at the “stupid bloody thing” and “now we’re just going to have to get it out and do it all over again. It’s not good enough.”I went quiet, and couldn’t believe that Mike could attack me like that, when I had been nothing but patient and cooperative all day. He had got mad at me for no reason.I was still … [Read more...]
My Girlfriend Gets So Emotional
Learning to manage your emotionally unstable woman will dramatically improve your relationship and keep her loving you forever Do you get frustrated when your girlfriend gets all emotional and says you don’t understand her, or you don’t listen to her?You do your best, after all! You do listen and try to offer suggestions to help her, because you love her and you DON’T want her to be upset. But somehow you get it wrong, and she ends up crying and being more upset.Does she tell you she wants you to LISTEN to her, not solve her problem?Most guys are confused by this. They don’t quite get what it is their emotional girlfriend actually wants from them!When your … [Read more...]
My Wife Blames Me For Everything
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