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Why do men withhold sex?

Posted on July 23, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

why do men withhold sex

How do I fix my sexless marriage?Do you feel like your life is stretching out before you, devoid of lust or passion? With a man you love, and have great companionship with, just no intimacy?Do you wonder why your marriage is sexless, where (once upon a time, just like in the fairy tales) you shared lots of fulfilling and regular sex? You still dream of it, and even ask for it occasionally. But you can only be rejected so many times, before you stop asking, right?Most men want sex all the time, so why does my man withhold sex?You so often hear from girlfriends that their husbands want sex all the time, and they get sick of it. But you are hurting when THAT topic gets brought up, because you … [Read more...]

Why Won’t He Commit?

Posted on July 23, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

why wont he commit

Sally asks Karen why her boyfriend won’t commit to herQuestion: FROM SALLYI want to get married but it seems he doesn’t. We have been going out for 3 years now and are seen by friends and family as a couple. He assures me that I am the only girl in his life. But he won’t speak to me about getting married. If I bring up the topic he just goes quiet. And if I insist, we end up arguing.Many of our friends are getting married, but not us!So it makes me wonder sometimes if he has someone else. Why won’t my boyfriend ask me to marry him? Is he a commitment-phobe? Am I fooling myself to think we have a future together?Answer: FROM KARENIt sounds like you are in a relationship with a great guy… you … [Read more...]

Poor Communication In Your Marriage

Posted on July 16, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

he does not trust me

Marriage Counsellor Karen Gosling can teach you how to improve your poor communication in relationships to reduce conflict.Phil and Michelle came to counselling to deal with poor communication in their relationship.There was an upsetting incident relating to the time Michelle had been in hospital having their first child. She'd had the baby on a Thursday and Phil said to her on the Friday that the lads at work wanted to take him out to celebrate his son's birth. His work mates had organised a golf day for the Saturday and wanted Phil to come and be the guest of honor so they could take him for a few drinks afterwards to celebrate. Phil was absolutely chuffed and when he told Michelle what … [Read more...]

Identify Your Partner’s Primary Love Language

Posted on July 16, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

Marriage Counsellor Karen Gosling can quickly help you identify your partner's primary love language and use it to meet his or her need for love. I refer you to the book, The 5 Love Languages, by Dr. Gary Chapman where he writes, "The desire for romantic love in marriage is deeply rooted in our psychological makeup." The problem is, keeping love alive in our relationship is serious business. And many relationships fail because couples don't know their partner's primary love language. The trick to staving off separation and/or divorce lies in how effectively you and your spouse know and communicate each other's need for love! A counselling client recently did not use these … [Read more...]

Unresolved Hurt Feelings

Posted on July 16, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

Marriage Coach Karen Gosling can help you work through your unresolved hurt feelings in your relationship. John came to counselling where he reported that his wife, Pam, was frequently irritated with him and was often snappy or angry, "even though I try hard to do what she asks." He wanted to understand if this was resentment? What are some signs she is resentful? How will I know? I explained to John that there can be many reasons why Pam resents him. However, resentments, or unresolved hurt feelings, usually start with anger about something that you have done, for example, flirted with another person or left laundry across the bedroom floor. OR it may be something that … [Read more...]

Break the Silence

Posted on May 10, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

QUESTION: When my wife and I have arguments, I try to keep the peace by staying quiet. This seems to make her even madder and she yells at me for not caring about her and not being interested in what she has to say. Sometimes I feel like her aggression is killing me, yet when we are not fighting, we are just fantastic together. What is our problem? ANSWER: It seems you have different emotional styles – your spouse reacts and you withdraw. When we have a negative feeling, are fighting or are feeling stressed, we have a predominant style, either fight or flight, to process our emotion. Reactive people want action, need to resolve something straight away. They need to talk or act now, to sort … [Read more...]

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