1. Do I want to communicate better so that I can deal with issues before they become resentments? (Presently this is not happening, right?)
2. Do I want to learn how to express how I feel without it becoming a full-on fight? (In any case, suppressing or “bottling up” intense feelings and not expressing them can carry a heavy emotional toll.)
3. Would it help me to find out my partner’s love language – would that make sure I keep my Soulmate? (Not guaranteed, but it would sure help AND let your partner know how you want to be loved.)