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The Sexless Marriage You Didn’t Want

Posted on August 4, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

the sexless marriage you didn't want

Remember when he was interested in your body – and now you have a sexless marriage? When you first got together, and were madly in love, sex was easy, right, and a priority? Even little disappointments (and little kids) didn’t get in the way! It was as if you were obsessed with this man, and would think about making love as often as he did. Well, almost!So how did you get to this place you find yourselves at now, perhaps going months without sex?How is it that in the beginning, you complained because he was only ever interested in your body – and now you complain because he is never interested in your body?This situation can leave you feeling unloved, anxious, suspicious, and even damage … [Read more...]

When Is It Time To Break Up?

Posted on August 4, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

when is it time to break up

Why is it so hard to break up with someone you love? How many times have you said to yourself (in your head or out loud) – “I just can’t do this anymore”?And how many times have you imagined what it would be like to be free of the stress of this relationship, of feeling frustrated and let down and low priority and lonely?How many times have you fantasised being with someone else – someone who adored you, and treated you with kindness and respect ALL THE TIME?And then you snap back to reality and say to yourself, “This is the real world, stop being a Dreamer.” Or, “Better the devil you know than the devil you don’t.” So you stay. And the wondering continues!How do … [Read more...]

Inconsiderate and Ignored

Posted on August 4, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

inconsiderate and ignored

How to deal with my inconsiderate partner when he ignores me? Why doesn’t he care about my feelings?How often have you yelled it in arguments, or complained to your girlfriends, that he makes you feel such a low priority?He is so inconsiderate of your feelings… and it’s not just the things he says, it’s the things he does, or doesn’t do, that leaves you feeling like the bottom of the list, time and time again.It feels just SO disrespectful, yet he doesn’t seem to care. And he never apologizes. You have to wait until the time is right to talk to him about how you feel and he just usually pleads ignorance, and tells you he never meant to hurt you. Or that you’re … [Read more...]

Our Marriage is Falling Apart

Posted on August 4, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

our marriage is falling apart

My wife wants to leave me as our marriage is falling apart When your wife tells you she wants to separate, she will not have made the decision overnight. Yes, you will be shocked and distressed. However, telling you she wants the marriage to end will also be causing her a considerable amount of distress.A woman’s identity is formed around the success of her relationship with her man. Therefore she does not make her decision lightly. In the USA, more women file for divorce on the grounds of emotional neglect than of physical abuse.A woman who says she wants to separate is feeling emotionally neglected (at worst) or taken for granted (at best). For probably many … [Read more...]

I’m unhappy in my marriage

Posted on August 4, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

unhappy in my marriage

My husband and I are drifting apart Have you ever felt that you and your husband are drifting apart? Have you thought to yourself that your husband doesn’t love you now the same as he did when you first got together, even though you still love him?I guess we have all felt that fear at some time in our relationship – the fear that we love our partner more than he loves us. Ever wondered why it is that you felt safe and secure in the relationship before, but not now? Why you are feeling more distant?Did he bring you flowers before you married – but never since? Perhaps he doesn’t hold your hand or cuddle up to you in bed like he used to? Or maybe he is more … [Read more...]

My Wife Avoids Intimacy

Posted on July 23, 2019 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

She withholds affection and avoids intimacy Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When their wives constantly avoid intimacy, it wears on them.Often women interpret the man’s need for physical affection as their husband “just always wanting sex”, or if their husband is nice to them, “it’s only because he wants sex”. If the wife is tired, let down, feels unsupported or irritated with something that her husband has done, she will likely not be interested in his sexual advances and push him away.When she withholds affection, he interprets this as a rejection of him.Men know, or soon learn, that their wife wants emotional connection, wants to be … [Read more...]

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