How to manage your partner’s personality Are you being hurt by the way your man behaves?Do you find you try to gauge his mood before you approach him?Would it be helpful if you could identify specifically what is wrong with him, and why you feel on edge when he is around, always careful about what you say? Perhaps he is someone who plays the Blame Game, and is frequently defensive.He may be someone who has unpredictable outbursts or even rages, leaving you puzzled about the rules of your relationship that keep changing.On the other hand, he may withdraw communication.He may give you the cold shoulder when he is mad about something you have done (and you are … [Read more...]

Do you have a nagging concern about your man being a Narcissist? According to the Ancient Greek legend, Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection in a pond.He rejected the advances of the nymph Echo and was punished by Nemesis, consigned to pine away as he fell in love with his own reflection, forever hoping that one day that beautiful person in the bottom of the pool was going to come out and love him. The narcissist requires excessive adulation, admiration, attention, and affirmation, or failing that wishes to be feared. Such feedback is known as narcissistic supply and the narcissist uses others’ reaction to him or her to regulate his or her sense of … [Read more...]

My Ex is a Narcissist so why can’t I get over him and move on? People experience love in different WAYS. Some people think they’re in love when they feel compassion for another person. Another might think its love when they find a person who meets their image of what will be perfect for their life. Others think that love is all about sexual passion.In order to understand a narcissist it’s important to know that love can have different meanings to different people.Narcissists come on as smooth and confident, they are charming and attentive and can be fun to date for a while. They thrive in the initial stages of a relationship because the new lover is adoring and … [Read more...]

How do I stop my husband flicking through and changing TV channels? Some years ago, Karen worked at a hospital with mainly female social workers. When a guy called Steve joined Karen’s team, the girls always found it interesting to hear a male’s perspective on how men thought about things, how they dealt with relationship issues and communication differences between men and women. Steve was always quite happy to talk about his feelings with his female colleagues and share his own relationship experiences which, they told him, is not common for a male to do. However, Steve said that he had learned a lot about himself in his social work studies and was happy to … [Read more...]

My husband gropes me constantly Pat would often come up behind Bev whilst she was working in the kitchen and give her a big hug from behind and reach around and squeeze her boobs. Bev thought she was meant to enjoy this affection from Pat, but actually she was irritated by it. Especially when she was in the middle of preparing dinner and her mind was a long way from sexual activity. She never said anything to Pat, as she didn’t want to offend him or deter him from displaying his affection. She just didn’t like it at the particular time. She didn’t know how to handle these situations. She also didn’t understand why she didn’t like him doing this.Bev would think … [Read more...]

My husband always lets me down but am I also letting myself down Consider this scenario:Linda often felt let down by her husband Trevor. She would ask him to do something that meant a lot to her, and he would agree at the time. But then he never followed through. The more it happened, the more she felt let down and the more resentful she became. Linda was aware that her Love Language was Acts of Service and Time. She felt loved when Trevor did things for her when she asked.(Don’t know what Love Languages refers to? Find out below)Trevor getting home after work when he said he would, to have dinner with the family, meant to Linda that he loved her and considered … [Read more...]