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Rewire Your Inner Voice

Posted on March 31, 2025 Written by Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

Learn to challenge negative self-talk. Silence your inner critic.

Do you ever hear that nagging inner voice saying, “You’re not good enough,” or “Why bother trying?” That’s your inner critic talking—and guess what? It’s lying to you. It feeds you a constant stream of doubts, discouragements, and insecurities, but it doesn’t have to be your truth. It’s time to Rewire your inner voice.

rewire your inner voice

In Marriagology, I dive deep into how this inner voice often takes shape in early childhood. It’s molded by repeated messages from authority figures, such as parents, teachers, or caregivers, and by emotional experiences that leave lasting impressions.

These early messages often set the foundation for the way we perceive ourselves, and as time passes, this negative self-talk becomes an ingrained pattern. The mental loop plays in your subconscious mind, influencing your emotions, decisions, and behaviors, often without you even realizing it.

You may have internalized these negative messages so deeply that you don’t even question them anymore—they just seem like facts.

But here’s the truth: you don’t have to believe everything you think.

Your thoughts don’t define you; they are just thoughts, and you have the power to challenge them. Just because your mind produces a thought doesn’t make it true.

By identifying these negative patterns and consciously choosing to replace them with empowering, self-supporting messages, you can break free from the cycle.

This isn’t just motivational jargon—it’s rooted in neuroscience. Research shows that the brain is remarkably adaptable and can be retrained to react differently to stress, failure, or criticism.

Want to break free from self-sabotage and create a healthier mindset? It starts with one thought: “I am worthy of love and success.”

This simple affirmation can shift your entire perspective. Every day, choose to prove this truth to yourself. With consistent practice, you’ll start to rewire your inner voice. Over time, you’ll notice a shift toward greater self-compassion, confidence, and the ability to navigate life’s challenges with a positive mindset.

Conclusion

Karen Gosling offers marriage counselling to improve intimacy and connection. Your inner voice doesn’t have to be your enemy. By taking control of it, you can start living a more empowered, fulfilled life.

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About Karen Gosling BA (Soc. Work), MPH, AASW,

World renowned expert in making marriages flourish and ADHD/ASD specialist coach, Karen Gosling, is author of 4 books on healthy reationships, and an experienced Counsellor and Social Worker providing health services for more than 28 years. READY TO GROW YOUR OWN FLOURISHING MARRIAGE? Book your 2-Hour Session with Karen Now >

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