And yet these words are becoming more and more common in today’s “throw-away society” – when your relationship is not working out for you, you simply discard it for another.

Too many people are getting wrong advice to “just leave” or “get a divorce” if their relationship is on the rocks – it seems to be the easiest way to go.

But what if you could unlock what you felt – your deep connection and passion – when you first met?

You felt then that your love was strong and you would be together for ever – and that your love stood out from all other relationships.

So you fell deeply in love with each other and just expected to remain soulmates. You never imagined that your relationship might come to an end.

Then it happened… Those expectations weren’t met and your relationship started to go south. Perhaps first you stopped talking with one another, then you began avoiding each other, and next your sex life disappeared. You began to feel alone, unloved and a low priority. The sad thing is, so did your partner!

In my experience most couples don’t realize until it’s too late that their marriage lacks focus. They don’t really know what they are working towards so they have no idea what they should be working on. So they don’t do any maintenance work on their relationship. My marriage counselling changes that.

Also, couples don’t realize that men fall in love differently than women (and they certainly communicate differently to women!)